A leader demonstrates integrity by doing the right thing even when no one else is around to witness it.
A leader does not only need to have integrity to become successful. He must also be respectful, reliable, courageous, positive, motivational, and sincere. He must also be a visionary in the sense that he already envisioned what his organization will become under his leadership.
A successful leader not only increases his value of self but also those people under his leadership. He must also serve as an inspiration for people under his leadership to become a better version of themselves.
This is a question that only you yourself can answer. No use of asking someone else to try and describe your aggression towards a family/friend.
