I am 11 year old and u just needed to login in so I can't answer ur questions
The real place should theoretically have space for 87 passengers if it is an exact model and doesn't have modifications in the seat numbers.
Let say the two train cars are of masses
and 
now if the speed of two cars are
and 
then we can say that the momentum of two cars before they collide is given by

here two cars are moving in opposite direction so we can say that the net momentum is subtraction of two cars momentum.
Now since in these two car motion there is no external force on them while they collide
So the momentum of two cars are always conserved.
hence we can say that the final momentum of two cars will be same after collision as it is before collision

Force, newtons 3rd law of motion stated for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction
S=(0x4)+(0.5x4.81x4x4)
S=0.78.48
The depth is approximately 78 meters.
(My brain hurts now) :P Good Luck!