Jolene's friends are using weight-loss supplements to lose a lot of weight in a short amount of time. Jolene didn't think it was
a safe idea but her friends continued to encourage her to try them, and she is having trouble standing her ground. What can Jolene say to help her handle this difficult situation? A-"I am worried that those supplements might be unhealthy, and I am uncomfortable with you pressuring me to try them."
B- "I guess I don't need to lose as much weight as you do, so I am not going to take the easy way out with those pills."
C-"Only losers need to take supplements, I am going to manage my weight with exercise and a healthy diet."
D-"You're not a good friend if you pressure me like this. I'm not going to hang out with you if you treat me this way."
She is being honest and direct in this response to a difficult situation. By responding in this way she is letting her friends know exactly how she feels about the situation without being angry or harsh or mean, just direct. With any luck her friends will now understand and stop pressurizing her.
The answer is A. By saying this, she is effectively communicating the fact that she does not want to take the pills and that she thinks it is a bad idea.
The way you can protect your self in an abusive relationship is to tell someone whats going on, tell the police, or just leave from the relationship when you get a chance.
