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m = 5 kg
a = 2 m/s²
to find the force that accelerates the 4 kg object @ 2 m/s²
F = ma = 5 kg x 2 m/s² = 10 N
To find what acceleration 10 N would give a 20 kg object
a = F/m = 10 N/20 kg = 0.5 m/s