The only evidence you have that you exist as a self-aware being is your conscious experience of thinking about your existence. Beyond that you're on your own. You cannot access anyone else's conscious thoughts, so you will never know if they are self-aware.
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the car will slow down due to the change in speed
No. An ion is formed when a positron or electron join with an atom to make it have a non neutral charge. Adding a neutron makes it an isotope.