Nobody is like you. You are not like any other. Some people are good and some are bad. That’s just how it is. Self love can be established by hanging around positive people, believing in yourself and not bringing yourself down nor putting yourself in situations that would make you put yourself down
Being able to wash a car to achieve that goal you need to have soap and water. Start by putting water on the car then put soap on it then your done and repeat till it shiny