Electrons because the amount of valence electrons determines the bonds it can form and often times during a chemical bond or the forming of a compound an element will lose some of its electrons.
1 - 8
2 - 13
3 - 20
4 - 19
5 - 19
6 - 22
* protons - Atomic number
electrons - number of electrons is equal to number of protons k-41 is neutral
neutrons - Mass number - Atomic number
= 41 -19
= 22