When the drumstick hits the drum, it exerts a force on the drum. Newton’s third law states that if a force from object A is exerted onto object B, then an equal and opposite force from object B is exerted onto object A. By Newton‘s third law, the drum also exerts a force on the drumstick.
Because Na has one too many electron to be stable, while Mg has 2. once they loose those electrons, they will be come ion. loosing one electron will give the ion a 1+ charge, and loosing 2 will create a 2+ charge