They have 2 valence electrons. A tip my Chemistry teacher gives is to look at the number of the group (A groups) because, the number of the group generally correlates to the number of valence electrons within that group.
A 1 molar solution is the molecular weight in grams in 1 litre of water, so a 3.5 molar solution would be 58.44g multiplied by 3.5, which is 204.54g in 1L