Answer:
Both forces have the same magnitude
Explanation:
1) Notation
= force exterted by the bus to the firefly
= force exterded by the firefly to the bus
2) Analysis for the situation
The reason why is from the Third law of Newton that states: "For every action, there is an equal reaction force on the opposite direction to the original action force".
For this special case on math terms we have:

The fact that the firefly splatter on this case is because since have a smaller mass, it is less able to stand up to the larger acceleration from the interaction.
3) Conclusion
Based on this analysis, each force would have the same magnitude, so none force is greater than the other.