Two methods of transfer of heat are involved in this process: conduction and convection.
In fact, the metal spoon is heated by conduction because the molecules of the boiling water collide with the molecules of the spoon, releasing heat to it; and also by convection, because in the pot of boiling water masses of hot water goes upward and they give their heat to the spoon, then these masses become cooler and they go down, replaced by other masses of hot water.

Actually Welcome to the Concept of the Wave Optics.
Whenever the waves are out of phase they form a DESTRUCTIVE interference.
thus,
Destructive Interference occurs when two waves are out of phase.
Whenever we move, we alter the rate at which we move into the future. This statement is true.